Quoting from my friend's blog, "Sometimes I feel confident and attempt to push it a little further. I say silly things in an attempt to flirt with her, hoping that maybe I could charm or trick her into liking me."

Upon reading my fren's blog tat is updated consecutively( normally takes months to write one)this time, I realised that my friend is so troubled by this issue that is the considered the world's most unsolvable problem.

i guess i can say to my fren that, 'rest assured, many people experiences this. Perhaps your love luck is not here yet?' OR
'this is part and parcel of love and to experience these give you an outlook of different people living in this world and you may need to find out solution to every problems every now and then, so don't give up!'

I don't know. I've been treating my fren like my good fren, although i seldom talk to my fren. i guess i know i am not my fren's good fren or close fren or watsoever... but i really hope that ican reach out to my fren so my fren would not feel so lousy. i hope i can lend a listening ear and i guess exude my psychological instinct and to apply what i've learnt.

but,my fren being an introvert(i guess), i need to be more sensitive to my fren. There was once when i talk abt whether my fren is in relationship, my fren kept me suspended and i guess i went a little overboard to ask more about it. it's obvious that my fren din want me to know but i guess i was acting like some smart alec. damn!

but but, i really have NO means of prying into my fren's private life but i tot i could help.
i am sure that it has to do with his ego and id and superego. ego in this case is not the ego but according to Freud, my fren could be suppressed or rather...fixated at certain psychosexual stage.
if not my fren would not feel so inconfident.

my fren, dont hesitate to share your burden and see if i can help you out!