recently watched 'couple or trouble' a korean dramn. it's a love comedy but it's absolutely sweet. at the same time..the dressing and fashion of the female lead actress has always been my dream fashion. yes. but becos of my ugliness, and no sense of fashion...i'm not a really good dresser. so ya...got a lot of tips from this show. XD
she's my fave korean actress now..or rather..all time fav. She's HAN YE SEUL, hope i din spell it wrongly. haha! oh...that cute guy starring as chang chul soo, is OH JI-HO. hope i spelt correctly again.
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ya..all are beautiful pple.
talking abt beautiful pple, Clarissa Rae..my sec fren is the most beautiful person i've ever encountered. though not really a close fren...it's comforting to know that i've met her before and talk to her before. she's beautiful. i guess e Singapore version of Anna Cho in Couple or Trouble. ha!
anyway..been quite 'busy' with revision..and my ending lab report for mem and cognition. and the start of personal profiling paper for councelling. argh! hate it.
anna out! :P
but...since i bought it..you should just say..oh cool..nice.. instead of like..lashing everything out to tell me how bad it ws when i actually bought it. even if he said that...he should at least, add up another...comforting word.
in retrospect, i learnt abt how u should speak so you sounds caring. eg. i hit her quite hard....
den councellor:' well..she'll be pretty ok..u see..."
that...although sounded as if you're trying to care..but..that is like brushing the client off..like..dun bother me..what;s done cant be undone..just know that she's ok.
so...what my friend said was...' since u bought it, just use lor.' i dun exactly rmb but the gist is there..it's like..that tone of..it's not my prob... we're just mere acquaintants.
yes i admit that i din consult him but merely put it as my subnick.. i guess i should not be judgemental abt his preference of friends or anythingrelated to it...and i supposed that he's busy and therefore din see it. but still...ask what's the situation first before considering tellng me the bad stuff. and its like..he told me on that day i bought my mac somemore! that's like...aarrrggghhh!!!!*pulling my hair off!* *lia gong!*
but talkng abt acquaintance.....our friendship dated back to like when i was sec 3 or 4...it's quite disheartening to hear friends u knew so long to talk to you i that way. i'm not trying to use this blogger media to bring my unhappiness or any bad feelings to him but...after i've attended councelling...i realised something...it's ok to say it out..it's ok to cry.
i tot i was a strong person...becos i've seen so many situations before(presumably) and i dun tear that easily. mommy taught me how to be strong. But after last week's session, i realised how hurt i was when i talked abt the topic 'friend'. i even teared.. that's like so embarrassing?! in frot of my 2 good friends(presumably, dunno how they feel)
ya..so i just realised how i should pple now... not to treat them as my best friend but just close friend. not good friend but close.
pple reading it might think that i'm being so rude..or someone who dun treasure them..but...it's an experience that i had tht sort of made me do that. it's not that i dun want to..in fact..i want to be close best friend...etc...but this world's harsh.
as long as i treat pple with good heart, they'll noe. and if pple treat me with good heart( or sincerely) i will know and treat them the same way.
so whoever out there feels that some one treats u good, u of course should treat them good too. but reserve some in case they backstab u in the future. or..if they treat u good, beware of the motives.
butto make it clear, i'm not any like the later.
anyway...been busy with lab report...and recently...went to kallang ave ZEN, to buy some household furniture.
the place is beautiful i say! the ambience was serene and the decor of the sofas, bed, and dining table were beautiful and just nice. there was a corner where it's dim and dark..so suitable for sleeping in. hahaha! oh there's anoter part of the show room which was brightly lit by the sunlight outside. that was really nice and appealing to me too! THere's this corner near the cashier that was really soothing too. it's like those small garden table and seats. made of stone and carvings of chinese words... they also have this platform with the really low table and really low seats. they were the jap tables. beside them was this small square hole with small waterfall. its super soothing! Besides the platform, there's this wooden made swing. oh my! i really love that swing! esp in an air coned place and soothing water fall sound, you can really sleep in that swing! oh..and that swing was really nice. you dun need pple to push u or u have to contantly kick the floor to kickstart the swing swinging.(eh..sounds wierd) but just simple moving of your leg will swing.
so besides the chinese element, there's also jap element. i saw alot of jap dolls around. really nice. but they cost like...200 each? urgh! super ex!
well becos they have this decor of water flowing...they also have those dry ice coming out. its really fun to play with it. coswhen they are released, it travels with the water down. and u can exert your 'qi' on them. haha! like pushing the dry ice with force. Or you can twirl them by circulating ur finger over them. hahahaha! yes...i admit..i did that! lol!!!!
btw..we bought a 3+2+1 living room sofas. they were really beautiful. and comfortable too! ;P
including the end table and coffee table. den a 4.5feet table. with 6chairs. den....a singgle bed..for me. hahaha! den...mom bought a 'vase'. it's expensive for all. and a 'free' gift...something to put under cups...i dunno what's that called. haha.
but anyway..it was nice. esp the uncle who served us. he's really knowledgeable.
den..recently bought highlighter..haha! with t he marker for 'calligraphy'
oh..and..hmmmmm it's been TWICE that jeanette helped me to bring me things home. first was umbrella. now....my foolscap. argh! but thanks to her. haha!
Oh..i dreamt today. it was me, my family, my dad's jap fren, my cousin and husban with their friends...in total..quite a no. of pple went to this house, not really a posh jap house but just traditional jap house used for massage? den we have to enter this room...which the top roof was partially covered. the sides are susceptible to rain though. but it was nice. cos u're getting massage. BUt then........we have to change into thos robes...and we have to take off our clothes to wear them before wearing back our clothes to prevent from getting cold..haha! it was funny.
den...my cousin's gal fren saw me cos i was the last to sit down..and she sort of told me that i was tall?? yeah.. i think she said that...ahha!
funny! dream is a reflection of sub consciousness....