we each have 3 pple in a group. and we're supposed to role play a counsellor, client and observer. so i kena client first becos of the tiny weeny lucky draw..and it's literary tiny becos the paper is like...smaller than 1cm? around there... and yeah sam is the councellor and observer lynn.

so we chose1 qn out of e 3. qns like the jobs whether we like it or not. what hobbies or even current politics,happenings.

yeah..so i talked about Zara... as usual. i'm not shy or i'm not trying to cover it up.. i'm splattering it out all over the place like those pple who kena internal injuries, splashing the blood all over the wall... muahaha!

of course..e feeling of being 'counselled' was very wierd....sam was good..being 'professional' :D prob..that made me felt wierd..lol!! no offences man!

yeah..den lynn counselled sam..and i as the observer...was busy jotting down..and trying to keep in pace..and inde end..scribbled and it was embarrassing to give lyn those scribes. LOL!

right..so it was my turn to be councellor. hahah!! and it was wierd cos i strayed from work to her family...well..i din noe what to say anymore..and i was looking at Sam to give signal that 3 mins' up! so..eventually time's up..and she said that i've touched her raw nerves.. ssssss.... goodness.that was bad... i shouldnt have done that! but...miraculously...

both said that i was good.. i'm like..."huH? really meh?"

so below is e evaluation by sam.

Visual/eye contact. Facilitative? Starin？　Ａvoidance? Sensitive to the individual client? At what points, if any, did the interviewer break contact? Facilitatively? Distruptively?


-good eye contact

-facilitative shifting

Vocal qualities. Vocal tone? Speech rate? volume? accent? points at which t hese changed in response toc client actions? No. of major changes or speech hesitations?


-casual tone,relaxed

-encouraging tone, help move on e topic

vol wassoft so it seemed encouraging but not interrupting

Verbal tracking and selective attention/ was the client able to tell the story? stay on topic? no. of major topic jumps? did shifts seem to indicate the interviewer interest patterns? Did the interviewer demonstrate selective attention in pursuing one issue rather than another? Did the client have the majority of the talk time?

-able to stay and probe on e e topic without seeming unnatural and invasive

-she seemed genuinely interested and paid full attentionm, smooth flow of conversation

attentive body lang. leaning? gestures? facial expression? at what points, if any, did the interviewr shift position or show a marked change in body lang? no. of facilitative body lang movements? what the session auntentic?

good space

nervous fidgeting of hands

nodding

appropriate facial expression

specific positive aspects of the interview?


-very approachable

-on same frequency asclient, can carry on the topic well

very appropriate comments at the right points

wow!that's thank you!

today was fun!

kim bum lover!