o righty den. today went to school for 'intro to councelling' and hmmm some how the lesson of 3 hours passed by rather fast. i tried recalling what we did but it's just simple recalling of last week's learning points and after that, listened to his wonderful stories of his encounters with clients of all sorts. lol! after tat, we did some exercise by going thru it in groups of 3s and we did a small exercise...that was go give praise to each other on our left and right. woohoo! haha! cos i was the first to brought up that point, and there Tim asked us to do this small exercise. so we praise each other and all felt awkard. somehoW! haha!!!! there it was..the break. yay! had a walk with yasmeen to e cafeteria and hmmm... saw one of Jacob, Jimmy, Seb's swedish friend.. that black curly hair guy. he's kinda cute.. yeah. but we nv even talk once! looked at each other before.. and today..hmm it seems that he din see me even though he's just in front of me. nvm. he's in the biz sch. so i rarely get the chance to see him..dun even talk abt saying hi.

yeah..so..after the break, we were in groups of 5... comprising of me, yasmeen, cool dude Mikael, cool accented Ming and that 'goodness' Fred. haha! just joking FreD!

so we make Mikael present the points all becos of what Ming said... he's got the sexiest voice. lol!!! yeah..we did agree to that. lol! and that... we started to think of singlish...and how funny it was to hear 2 guys of western accent to speak in singlish. all the lahs...and mikael said 'aiyoh' like... haha!! so real!? i mean..really singlish.. in that western tone.

well.. i guess he's not that unapproachable after all.. i just need to find more topics to talk to. hehee!

so sch ended for us just like that. so me, sam, lyn, fred, and ming went to hk street to eat. and Fred decided to teach Ming singlish.. no way man! Fred's the bad guy! dun convert MIng to a boy who speaks singlish cos i am sure that once someone...anyone who tries to learn singlish, they cannot revert back to his original accent anymore! you know why>?

singlish...a language that is mixed,is the only lang that can really express what we really want to say, feel and all kinds of expression.. seriously man!

haha! and so..i went to meet my mom at chinatown people's park to buy some pants...and ended up we bought clothes and pants... i got myself a top that is hmmm $52.. damn it. its super ex!!!

but it's worth it. cos of the material, it's what....satin??? yeah. it's actually a 2-piece top, it had a vest that is really nice..and it suited the colour. the whole thing was brown. yipee!! yeah..mom bought a coat? some jacket style...and after that..bought a top, and 3 pants!! can you imagine how desperate she was?? 3 pants!!!!! so in total, we spent like $220., inclusive of the top i bought...

sigh...$$$$ spent away just like that?? i hate the life in singapore...everything is so ex and money is always not enough!? i know how great Jack Neo's movies are now. He's definitely got foresight. haha!!! he's smart..he's cooL!

oh btw..today was seriously a bad bad day for me.If you find that you cant take vulgar language, i advise you not to read on because it contained some explicit content. i cant believe i encountered such presposterous service by this lady in people's park centre..that building that sells fabric, textiles and clothes(where we bought our clothes). It's not even service pls!!!

it's just lip service! she's blind ok!!??!!??!! that pants my mom wore was ugly and the top i wore made me looked not my age and she said that the pants my mom wore was great...and it's natural that the back(buttock area) had a line that hooked the butt crack...becos..." 我们这些生过孩子的身材是这样的。比较下垂过年轻人。他们年轻人的身材跟我们不同。他不了解啦。我们的裁剪全部很都是很fit身材的。"

i was furious and burning inside...hello! she's my mom..not yours ok!? i have the right not to let my mom wear those ugly fugly looking pants of yours! i know they fit the body but...u dun have to put me down like dat~ bloody fu*ker.

den my mom wore this red top and it was super fu*king ugly and she dare to say..."很年轻啊！ 你不是合穿刚才那个，这个比较适合你。 " please!!! that was of super low quality and the material sucked to the core! everywhere's selling it! the place where we bought my mom's pants, sold the top too! and guess what?!?!? so so so so so much cheaper than hers! she still dare to say her's already very cheap!! please la.. it's so ex..where got cheap!

yeah..so she was BOOTLICKING my mom!?!?! BLINDLY!! BLIND RAT! STOP YOUR BOOTLICK, IT SUCKED TO THE CORE! i'm not being sensitive but it's just way too far off the reality! that top was ugly for my mom and she said it was nice.

so i request to try on other skirt and tops...and guess waht they say, “那件裙子是白的，我们没有试穿。”

hmm i was like wondering........why cant we try the SKIRT?! i seriously cant think of any reason how we will dirty that skirt! i can think of white TOP being dirtied by our make ups and lipstick mark. AND!!! she should not let me try that WHITE top since the reason was like that! damn her.. she gave me a stucked-in -the-arse look. i can see that she wasnt that happy orady. hmmm BUT SO WAHT?!

so it's like..she was so determined to sell that top to me...getting ready the clothes on the cashier desk. but hellow........SINCE WHEN DID I SAY I WANT!?!??! really!?!? i can recall vividly that i din say i want. she kept making sure without me realising..i was like..wtf?!

i liek the pants..but becos it's so obvious that she bootlicked overboard my mom, i started to find her being really really FAKE! so i decided not to buy it. of course, my mom went away first, an she called me...obviously din want me to buy it...and asked me to leave the shop. damn.. that part was what i always hated.

so after i changed back, she said "那怎么样？你要这件衣吗？" i said, icurrentl din have money and yeah..i dun want to buy it.

now at this point of time, tell me what's right. does the customers have the right to decline any purchase of prod, after much trying out and realised that the clothes are not of the right taste?

seriously..i need feedback on this.. oh..btw..

do we den, have the right to do that (above) in places like the people's park centre shops? just like trying out clothes at Zara and not buying them?! becos Zara has extra service charges for sales girls if they do servicing...that's what they are employed to do so.

but how bout owning a shop yourself, and doing biz in a small shop? do you still ahve to do servicing den?

it's entirely up to the shop owner whether they want to do servicing or not i find. they will always try their best to persuade us. but i find that at the end of the day, it's still up to the customer's decision to whether they want to buy or not... price wise, shop owners do have to reflect it themselves.

ok back to that bloody shop, after i said i din want to buy, she said with a stupid HARSH tone, LITERARY SCOLDING ME. OUTRIGHT IN MY FACE. WITHOUT ANY HESITATION OR EVEN THOUGHTS OF HOW EVIL THAT WAS!," eh，你那里可以这样的？我们好心打开门要做你们的生意，你却试了那么多件， 又不要买。 你们母女俩都一样的。我第一次看到你这种这样的客户。你真得很过分leh. 你懂你再浪费我的时间吗？我很忙得leh！ 你这样做是不对的！"

of course.. there were more than these simple sentences.. i rmbed that there was this sentence that raelly made me boil. but i forgot that. argh. if not, she will be a much condemned person on this earth!

and yea..that sentence 'both you and yur mom are the same' that was like adding petrol and kerosene to my small flame. and i can feel myself on fire, hair on fire ! so it's like my whole body was on fire.'

another was, ' it's my first time seeing such customers like you and you are too much'. yeah..that was the max... hellow! customers have the right oK!?! we have to right not to buy it and u cant force us to buy! you mother fu*ker! go to hell pls!

dun think that by scolding us you'll get me buying your stuff or even get us condemned becos we din buy your clothes. in fact, you should b the one being condemned!

this one is simple ridiculous! ' i dun have time ok? you'r wasting my time by attending to you and letting you try my clothes'

this is super extra and i felt liek slapping her..hmm or rather... give her a middle finger, and throwing off the clothes from the cashier desk!

before i even try e clothes(becos mom went to the toilet and i walked around ), she was not doing anything impt..eg making fone calls or writing some stuff..she was trying on the clothes! she changed and she was preening herself! and she's attending to me and another customer only!

there's 2 shopkeepers then. and it's ok i tell you, to attend to max 2 or just 2..cos i did that myself..and that's not a prob! even if it's 3, it's just taking clothes to them and one can just attend to them by bootlicking. no proB!

and that time she accused me of wasting her time?! hey! BE GLAD THAT I WASTED YOUR TIME BECOS THAT WOULD MAKE YOU NOT FEEL THAT BORED. and bloody hell she does have to reflect on the price she set.. she should lower the price to keep customers coming back! she din do that at all! and she decided to keep her biz low by scolding ppple off~!?! how bitchy was that?!

May God bless her. i am sure that she wont repent.

she fu*king hell sucked to the core!

at the end of this post, do pardon my lang. this was the most furious thing i've ever encountered in my life and no i wont scold vulgarities when i'm angry. But i'll scold if whoever makes me SUPER SUPER angry!

thanks for hearing me out!